Ronnie Lambe

Ronald Edwin Lambe

1925 – 2022

‘Ronnie’ Lambe, who died at the age of 97 on 30th August 2022, had been a member of Cygnet Rowing Club for 75 years. Almost certainly the longest standing member of the club to date, he was also the last surviving link with ‘Wally’ Wheldal, the most memorable of the club’s founding fathers, whom he recalled meeting in person in the late 1940s.

Ronald Edwin Lambe was born into a large family on 7th May 1925. The family was originally from the East End but had upped sticks and moved to Walthamstow by the time Ronnie appeared on the scene. These were harsh times: the country was still coming to terms with the aftermath of the Great War and some of his earliest memories were of his father and uncles relating tales of their battle-weary times in France. “They lived most of their lives in mud and shit, but their recollections were not unhappy ones”.

His father was a successful insurance agent and the family moved around a lot, eventually settling in Putney where Ronnie went to Elliott Central School, a seat of learning that catered for “moderately bright young men who had not quite managed to gain a scholarship”. Ronnie always maintained that the school’s chief task was to mould boys into “clerks for the City, who were content to touch their caps and be nice to their masters as long as they got paid reasonably well”.

Upon leaving school in 1943, Ronnie went straight into the Royal Navy where he served for three years. To his eternal regret he never went to sea which may perhaps explain why he jumped at the opportunity to join Cygnet RC, having been invited to do so by his old school chum Vic Reeves. Messrs Reeves and Lambe were duly elected as new members on 16th August 1947, he under the happy impression a sparkling career as a club oarsman beckoned. In truth, and as Vic Reeves confessed some 60 years later, they had only ever intended him to be a coxswain, a role that he accepted with his customary equanimity.

In 2005, Ronnie penned some of his memories of those early post-war years: “Many members were returning from the armed forces which tended to engender a rather relaxed air in contrast to the enforced discipline they had become accustomed to.” Beer drinking was popular – Jenner’s Golden Ale was the chosen tipple – and Ronnie recalled the huge consternation that greeted the submersion of the club bar in the floods of 1953. Still, there were ‘pots’ to be had and Ronnie shared in the club’s haul of silverware throughout the heady days of the 1950s.

An astute observer of his surroundings, Ronnie recalled that “The river was rather different in those days. Not only was it very dirty, but there was a considerable amount of commercial traffic – mainly tugs pulling eight to nine barges loaded with coal up to the old Brentford gas works”. Nonetheless, “we still sometimes swam at the top of the tide through Barnes Bridge and back”. Small Profit Dock, opposite the boathouse on the Surrey side, was still in occasional commercial use and “it was…. there that I, as cox, put a brand new eight aground on its first outing”. Plus ςa change!

Despite his long tenure at Cygnet, Ronnie was never a civil servant. However, as an employee of a nationalized industry, he always considered himself to be one. Having been ‘demobbed’ in 1946, he initially became a vacuum cleaner vendor before taking up a clerical post at British Gas primarily because it was close to home, and he needed a stop gap until something better came along. He never left, serving 40 years as a “gas employee”; yet in all those years he never seems to have been tempted to join Horseferry, the gas board’s counterpart to Cygnet.

The Civil Service Boathouse has always been a marriage bureau first and a rowing club second and Ronnie duly married St George’s lass Anne Crewdson in 1960. Procreation followed: Stephen was first on the scene, then twins Philip and Rosemary. Thereafter, Ronnie’s active rowing days were few and far between. Nonetheless, while he may have vacated the coxswain’s seat, he never relinquished his quill.

A natural bureaucrat, he amply fulfilled the aspirations of Elliott Central, performing secretarial duties at Cygnet, the Civil Service Boathouse Executive, Putney Town and Borne at Chiswick regattas, Ranelagh Sailing Club, ‘Cygnets’ bungalow committee and the Hamhaugh Islanders’ Association among others. At times he must have felt his very sanity was on the line: Marjorie Israel, his successor as Secretary at Cygnet, recalls a classic occasion when he found himself writing a letter to himself at the CSBE from himself as club secretary. Nonetheless, he stayed the course as club secretary for almost two decades, while his association with Putney Town Regatta extended over half a century.

A safe pair of hands (and an obvious choice as a club trustee), Ronnie steered Cygnet through some turbulent times, not least the ultimately abortive negotiations for a merger with BBLRC. Yet he always remained above the fray and enthusiastically embraced the age of the word processor. Neil Pickford recalls that in later years he attracted the (affectionate) nickname of the ‘The Lambinator’ amongst the younger, active members of Cygnet and BBLRC, a pun born out of his predilection for creating laminated signs for the boathouse at every opportunity.

Among his contemporaries, Ronnie was unusual in escaping the clutches of the Golden Oldies and he rarely imbibed with them at the Boathouse on a Tuesday or Thursday afternoon. Still, he was never above having a good time. Family gatherings on Hamhaugh Island were common, while he and Vic Reeves were instrumental in founding the ‘veterans’ lunch at Henley which became the Leander lunch.

Bungalow committee meeting lunches at ‘Cygnets’ held a special attraction in latter times with all the great and the good – Peter Sly, Vic Reeves, Mike Arnold-Gilliat and Nina Padwick to name but a few – in attendance. Very much the gourmet, these occasions lent themselves to all sorts of Lambe culinary delights. His meat pies at Borne Regatta were legendary.

For many of us, one of our last memories of Ronnie will have been of him wearing his stripy club blazer at Old Blades on Henley Friday. In 2009, Ronnie sat down with Vic Reeves and recorded a Talking History looking back over a lifetime at Cygnet Rowing Club. At the close of that recording he reflected that “joining Cygnet was a major action in my life and a source of the greatest pleasure”. Anne predeceased him in 2009; he is survived by Stephen, Philip and Rosemary, five grandchildren, and a wealth of committee minute books.

Ronnie’s funeral will be held on Friday, 23 September at 10.30am at Guildford Crematorium and afterwards at Philip and Viven’s home, 13 Hamhaugh Island. Please contact the Secretary if you plan to attend the reception.

Paul Rawkins, September 2022